Lizzy’s Latest – Elizabeth Who?!
I confess! I am a bit high maintenance. Though many who know me would argue I am VERY high maintenance. According to my Forever BFF, Tammy:
“Oh brother…you are super high maintenance…but you are real pretty and positive and bubbly so it comes off as charming.”
I guess that makes me tolerable? 😉
My best guy friend, William, added:
“Very high, but not as high as when we were in college. I wouldn’t have it any other way.”
So, according to William, I am becoming less high maintenance with time…YAY! 😊
It seems the consensus among my family and friends is that I am most high maintenance about my food restrictions (no cheese, no cinnamon, no sushi, no salad, no coffee, etc…) and the amount of time it takes me to get ready in the morning.
I remember some years ago when I visited my childhood friends in San Diego for a Kindergarten reunion, Tammy came to stay with me at the hotel to catch up. As I got ready the first morning, she was shocked that it took me so long. So, the next morning she decided to observe my morning routine as she enjoyed a bag of chips and some overdue girl talk. And yes, it really did take me a while to get ready.
Fast forward to a few weekends ago when I had dinner with my parents. Dad told me about the latest autobiography he was reading, Pieces of my Heart, by Robert Wagner. He said there was an interesting part that would resonate with me and he wanted to read the excerpt to me and Mom.
Dad began, “With Elizabeth…” and I quickly cut him off!
I sassed him with, “Why are you putting MY name in this? Who is the real woman?!”
Dad had a mischievous smile and asked that I allow him to finish the quote.
“Fine,” I said defensively.
“With Elizabeth, there [is] a great deal of maintenance. This is not a woman who gets up in the morning and fixes breakfast. By the time she comes downstairs for breakfast, it’s time for dinner. She’s not floating in the pool with you on a lazy Sunday afternoon, handing magazines back and forth. Elizabeth’s life is built completely around Elizabeth [.]”
“That’s not ME!!!” I exclaimed! “It doesn’t take me until dinnertime to get ready!!!”
Mom and Dad laughed and Mom added, “It does sound a little like you…”
I retorted, “Uh, maybe an EXTREME version of me!”
I then inquired about the real woman Robert Wagner was referring to because clearly Dad added my name for theatrics!
Dad paused for a moment reveling in this “mystery” before revealing that Robert Wagner had written that bit about the great Elizabeth Taylor! Yet, Dad felt it could have been written about me too.
I beg to differ! To my defense, it only takes me about two hours to get ready in the morning. I love the pool, just not on Sundays when I’m washing my hair (that’s a whole other story!). And my life is not built completely around me, at least I don’t think…
Interestingly, my mom’s favorite actress growing up was Elizabeth Taylor. In fact, Mom named me after her! I find it quite ironic that I exhibit some of my namesake’s high maintenance tendencies, but of course, to a lesser extreme. 😉
If you know me, please comment and tell me your thoughts! For the rest of you, can you relate?
This week, Lizzy’s Latest Shoespiration segment is featuring the Steven by Steve Madden Rees sandals. I love these heels! They are high at approximately 4.25 inches, but surprisingly comfortable! I purchased them a while ago, so they are very hard to find now. You can find them here, but quantity is limited. A quick internet search may yield you some additional results. I paired them with black shorts and an orange cut-out shoulder top. I completed the look with a cute anklet. This heel outfit/combo will be the last of my summer posts for this year. Fall style is finally on the horizon at Lizzy’s Latest! 😊
Have a wonderful week!
Style with a Smile!
XoXo,
Lizzy
Greg
November 5, 2019 @ 7:40 am
When I first read Robert Wagner’s thoughts on Elizabeth Taylor, I was amazed at how easily they could have been written about our Lizzy. So I had to share it with her and she’s such a good sport she’s sharing it here too. The description is hardly an exaggeration and BFF Tammy isn’t the only one who’s been intrigued by Lizzy’s regular extensive prep time. It has informed her lighting purchases (only custom made vanity lighting will suffice). It also inspired one miffed Hollywood screenwriter to name a villain after her in one of his scripts, and was the underlying cause for a very unfortunate row between her sister and a guest.
If you’re interested in reading more of what Wagner has written on the subject of Liz (Taylor), check out Chapter 7 of his memoir, page 95 in the hardcover edition. I can’t say how closely the additional information corresponds to our Lizzy because it’s more of a nature of what a husband would know, but it certainly puts Ms. Taylor in a new light and explains why Richard Burton went back for seconds.
Elizabeth H.
November 5, 2019 @ 9:28 am
Thanks for your insight, Dad! It’s funny you remembered the Hollywood screenwriter! I nearly forgot about that. It was the time Julie and I flew out to San Diego for a quick girls weekend. We stayed with an ex-coworker who also had other friends staying with him too. Our flight got in late and I still had to wash and prep my hair. So, at 3AM, I was in the bathroom using the hairdryer and making a whole lot of noise, but not intentionally. I tried to be quiet. When I got out, the Hollywood screenwriter (he wrote for one of those CSI type shows) was not amused. He was so irritated he said he was going to write me into one of his scripts as a villain who meets an untimely demise. LOL! Though, I’m not sure if that ever came to fruition because I don’t watch those shows. LOL!
Tammy Barnett
November 5, 2019 @ 8:21 am
It was a mystery to me how it could take 2hrs for someone to get ready. I now understand that there are lotions and sprays and primers that are required before the day can begin. Yes I decided to wake up early the one time to watch this daily beauty regimen. What you didnt mention is over the 2hrs I almost consumed the full size bag of chips! It was entertaining and shocking at the same time. I dont mind that it takes you so long to get ready…whatever makes Elizabeth Elizabeth! I will just continue to choose sleeping 1.5hrs more over getting up early and ask that you wake me up 30 minutes before it’s time to go. You look great…love the shoes and love you my forever BFF! 😁
Elizabeth H.
November 5, 2019 @ 9:12 am
Haha! Thank you, my Forever BFF! 🙂 You give great insight to my personality and habits. You did finish that bag of chips! I remember being impressed by that. I am so lucky to be surrounded by people who accept me and my high maintenance ways. Lol! And yes, you only need 30 minutes to get ready. I will never understand how you manage that and come out looking beautiful, fresh, and ready to take on our next adventure. 🙂 Love you too, Tammy Dee! 🙂
Michael C
November 5, 2019 @ 11:19 am
Interesting blog , so fortunate to have Tammy , your mother and father to enlighten your fan club along with your input on your high maintenance traits , most should know of your caring heart . I posted a story about a year ago and out of no where received a card …. such a caring lady , always look forward to your history blogs always very neat information…. you always do classy in outfits and shoes …. you may not know the inspiration you give others !!! Keep blogging beautiful Elizabeth
Thanks for touching a heart
Elizabeth H.
November 7, 2019 @ 1:39 pm
Thank you so much, Mike! You have been so kind to me! Your story from a year ago touched my heart and prompted me to find the perfect card to send your way and cheer you up. You’ve come so far since then and I keep praying your health continues to improve. Thank you for keeping up with my blog and being a great friend. Hope you have a great rest of your week! 🙂
Jill
November 5, 2019 @ 2:11 pm
So fun that you were named after Elizabeth Taylor! I think it’s good to get ready at your own pace. Love those chic sandals!
Jill – Doused in Pink
Elizabeth H.
November 5, 2019 @ 2:23 pm
I know! 🙂 And yes, I can’t rush my morning routine. Lol! Glad you like the sandals, Jill! 🙂
Connor K.
November 5, 2019 @ 2:15 pm
I can certainly attest to your food restrictions! I remember one day in the office when we had Chipotle catered for lunch…you were not very happy about it, since you have vowed to never eat Chipotle and cringe whenever I mention the place. When everyone got up to get in line for the food, I’m pretty sure you just went up so you weren’t the only person still sitting at the table! When it was your turn in line, you discreetly turned to me and asked me what I wanted, then gave it all to me after the meeting. I wasn’t mad, since it was delicious. You do definitely stick to what you like, though! But, that’s what makes you who you are and I think we are all thankful for you being you. 😃
Elizabeth H.
November 5, 2019 @ 2:51 pm
Haha! Yes, I cringe whenever you say you had Chipotle for lunch or dinner, Connor. So gross!!! So, imagine my surprise that Chipotle has become the favored meal for catered lunches here at work. Seeing the beans and the diced up meat make me nauseous (ok…perhaps I’m being a little dramatic here…lol)! Whatever the case, I will never eat Chipotle … ever! And so far so good. I’m glad you enjoyed the second helping! And thank you for your nice words…as I mentioned before, I am very lucky to have people in my life like you who let me be me, warts and all. 🙂
jodie filogomo
November 5, 2019 @ 9:09 pm
We all have our own funny things, Lizzy!! At least you know yourself and how life works…that’s the best part!!
If I had beautiful hair like yours, it would probably take me longer to get ready in the mornings…
OXOX
Jodie
Elizabeth H.
November 6, 2019 @ 1:34 pm
Yes, it’s our idiosyncrasies that makes us unique! 🙂 Thank you, Jodie! My hair sometimes has a life of its own. LOL! Hope you’re having a great week!
christina cenci
November 6, 2019 @ 8:16 am
You look so good!
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Elizabeth H.
November 6, 2019 @ 1:31 pm
Thank you so much, Christina!
Ashley
November 6, 2019 @ 11:30 am
You can’t rush a good thing, sista! I hear you. I have a pretty extensive morning routine- it’s not all me getting ready (re: getting dressed and putting makeup on), but the things I need to get done to feel good about starting the day (skincare routine, making the bed, coffee/tonic, feeding the pups, catching up on email, and then actually getting READY). Haha. When I don’t do those things in the a.m., I feel a bit off balance all day. Don’t feel bad about being a little high maintenance! 🙂
-Ashley
Le Stylo Rouge
Elizabeth H.
November 6, 2019 @ 1:30 pm
Awww…thanks, Ashley! I’m relieved you can relate. 😉 I’m like you!!! Haha!!! I like taking my time too. And being a little high maintenance is ok, so I am embracing it. 🙂 Hope you’re having a great week!
Margot
November 7, 2019 @ 1:47 am
Such a funny story !
I always try to not take too long to get ready in the morning but as long as everybody is pleased it’s the principal. Sometimes It does take a lot of time to get ready and feel pretty haha.
I love what you’re wearing here.
Pink looks so good on you.
xx
Margot
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Elizabeth H.
November 7, 2019 @ 11:32 am
Glad you enjoyed the story, Margot. 🙂 From reading your posts, you seem like a very low maintenance and easy going girl. 🙂 I’m sure your hubby appreciates that! But yes, it does take time to get ready and feel pretty. So, thank you for understanding that. Hope you are having a great week, my friend!
MELODY JACOBS
November 7, 2019 @ 4:35 am
You look good dear.
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Elizabeth H.
November 7, 2019 @ 11:29 am
Thank you so much, Melody! 🙂
Merel
November 7, 2019 @ 8:38 am
This look is amazing on you! This shade of pink is so pretty.
x Merel
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Elizabeth H.
November 7, 2019 @ 11:29 am
Thank you so much, Merel! Hope you’re having a great week!
SundayDahlias
November 7, 2019 @ 2:38 pm
Sometimes it takes me a long time to get ready in the morning and my husband ends up having to wait forever for me!😆
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Elizabeth H.
November 11, 2019 @ 9:19 am
Haha – you too? Well, that’s the way it’s supposed to be, babe! I think men are just used to it by now. 😉 Happy new week!
Jessica
November 9, 2019 @ 1:17 am
That’s such a cute pink top dear! Love it!
Jessica | notjessfashion.com
Elizabeth H.
November 11, 2019 @ 9:18 am
Thank you so much, Jessica! Happy new week!
Radi
November 11, 2019 @ 3:40 am
haha this made me smile… I’m also high maintenance, can’t help it.
You look wonderful!
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Elizabeth H.
November 11, 2019 @ 9:17 am
LOL – glad you can relate, Radi! I can’t help it either. Thank you for your comments. 🙂